Sheryl Matthys

Sheryl Matthys is the founder of FetchaDate, a dating app connecting single pet lovers, and the creator of Fetch Love, a dating coaching and media platform for pet lovers seeking meaningful relationships. A media personality, author, speaker, and Pet Lovers Dating Coach, Sheryl focuses on how a pet lovers lifestyles and values play significantly in relationship compatibility. Matthys is the author of the Amazon best-selling book Leashes and Lovers and has appeared on ABC News Now, Bravo, E!, SiriusXM, and Animal Planet. Her work and expertise have also been featured in national media, including The New York Times, USA Today, and Entrepreneur. Through fetchadate and fetchlove, she has built a brand for pet lovers to connect, date more intentionally, and pursue lasting relationships.

Why Do We Feel the Need to Justify Our Needs in Dating?

Justifying your needs in dating can leave you second-guessing yourself, over-explaining your feelings, and worrying about asking for too much. But expressing your needs is a natural part of building healthy relationships. Learning to communicate honestly and confidently can help you create connections that feel safe, balanced, and genuine. Why Justifying Your Needs in Dating […]

ASK SHERYL: Learning to Trust Again After Divorce: How to Open Your Heart Without Losing Yourself

Learning to trust again after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when a past relationship has left you questioning your judgment. If you’re ready to start dating again, it’s natural to wonder how you can open your heart without risking the same hurt. The good news is that rebuilding trust doesn’t mean ignoring red flags or […]

When Does Giving Someone A Chance Become Too Much?

Healthy compromise in dating helps two people understand each other, navigate differences, and build a stronger connection. But being open-minded doesn’t mean ignoring your own needs. So, when does giving someone a chance become a reason to accept less than what feels right for you? Many people gradually lower their standards without realizing it. They […]

ASK SHERYL: Should You Go on a Second Date? Dating Red Flags to Watch For

Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. (This question was asked anonymously.) Wondering, should you go on a second date when the first one leaves you questioning someone’s behavior? A late arrival and an unexpected conversation about credit scores can make you hesitate. Sheryl Matthys shares how […]

When Dating Has No Direction

Dating without direction can leave you feeling stuck in a connection that never seems to move forward. You may enjoy each other’s company and talk regularly, but without clear intentions, it’s difficult to know whether the relationship has a future. Whether you met a new friend, arranged a fun pet playdate, or […]

ASK SHERYL: Letting Go of Someone You Still Love

Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. This question was asked by Yong. Letting go of someone you love can be difficult, especially when your mind knows the relationship isn’t right but your heart is still holding on. You may find yourself grieving not only the person, but […]

The Right Person Won’t Keep You Guessing

Mixed signals in dating can leave you wondering where you stand with someone. When a person seems interested one day and distant the next, it’s easy to overthink every message and conversation. But a genuine connection shouldn’t leave you constantly guessing. Healthy relationships thrive on clear communication, consistent effort, and mutual respect. When someone likes […]

If They Like You, Why Do They Make It So Confusing?

Why They Pull Away When You Like Them Back Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. (This question was asked anonymously.) When someone pursues you enthusiastically, then pulls away as soon as you return their feelings, it’s easy to question yourself. Sheryl Matthys explains why mixed signals happen […]

The Dog Park Dilemma

Her list of requirements began to feel off. A few months ago, Mia started noticing something. She began to think more deeply about what healthy relationships look like in her own life. Not about the people she was dating… about herself. In doing so, she questioned her understanding of relationships that remain healthy over time. […]

App created to help you find love with other pet owners

Finding the right person online for pet lovers just got easier with pet owners app! FetchaDate helping single pet lovers find love at their end of the leash in this Indy Now segment on Fox 59. INDIANAPOLIS – August is National Dog Month, and if you’re a dog owner looking for love, finding the right […]

7 Ways to Comfort Someone Who Has Lost a Pet

Losing a furry best friend is never easy. Here’s how you can help when pet lost. After a long, happy life together, it’s hard to imagine saying goodbye to your pet. When a friend, family member, or love interest is faced with this difficult time, it’s understandable to not know what to say. Below are […]

Can CBD Alleviate Dating Anxiety for Dog Lovers?

Do you and your WingPet have first-date jitters? We’re all a little rusty when it comes to in-person dating if it’s been a while. It also comes as no surprise that the occurrence of dating anxiety became a steady rise, no thanks to the pandemic. If the thought of dating makes you anxious, know that […]

How Do You Meet Single Pet Lovers?

If you’re asking yourself where and how to meet single pet lovers, you’ve come to the right place. You might have tried other dating apps or sparked conversations in real life, but nothing seems to stick. The problem is you might be doing dating wrong. The secret? Connecting with eligible pet lovers over a mutual […]

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Can Pets Save Your Relationship?

Talking things out and getting guidance from a neutral third party is a healthy way to build a better relationship with yourself and others — and is undoubtedly true for romantic relationships. Professionals have dubbed this helpful voice of reason as the “third” in a relationship. Typically, a therapist would fill this role. But experts […]

Do Pet Lovers Have Better Online Dating Chats?

Pet lovers are the new normal in online dating chats In our nostalgia of going out to restaurants, I’d forgotten about pricey tabs, wait lists for tables, and the exhaustion of crowds. While we, and the rest of the world, should be clambering at the opportunity to get out and about, something else is going […]

Could Your Love Life Use a Spring Cleaning?

If your love life is feeling dull, stuffy, or just needs some refreshing, it might be time for a spring cleaning. Psychotherapist and relationship counselor Mary Jo Rapini, M.Ed, LPC has five tips that she believes everyone should do to breathe new life into their love life—from established couples to singles looking for the real thing. […]

FetchaDate App featured in Dating News

The FetchaDate App Helps Pet-Loving Singles Connect & Bond Over Shared Passions The Scoop: Singles who love their furry friends often want to know upfront if a potential match will like their pet. FetchaDate is a dating app designed to connect those serious pet lovers. The app caters to singles who love animals, and when they find a […]

Does Dating a Dog Lover or Cat Person Interfere With Your Love Life?

Dating a pet owner? There are many perks, along with these four not-so-sexy challenges. At FetchaDate, we believe that the secret sauce to love is a fellow pet lover, but that doesn’t mean that dating dog lovers and cat people while being a pet parent or dating a pet owner doesn’t come with its own set […]

Pets in Online Dating Profiles? Swipe Right!

Reasons You Should Have a Dog or Cat in Your Profile Photo There are a lot of choices when it comes to today’s dating pool, especially online. But unlike other online dating apps that focus on human profile pics, at FetchaDate, your WingPet with dog photo makes your first dating app introductions. Here’s why this idea […]

Show Your Ex Some (Revenge) Love This Valentine’s Day!

Want to get over your ex? Experts say there are seven stages of a breakup, including desperation for answers, denial, and anger. No matter what stage your find yourself at on Valentine’s Day, you’re almost guaranteed to be swiping through sappy posts on your Instagram feed. On February 14th, be prepared to be slapped in […]