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Do Dogs Really Love Us? What Science Reveals About the Love Between Dogs and Humans

If you’ve ever come home after a long day and been greeted by a dog wagging its tail, jumping with excitement, or running straight into your arms, you’ve probably wondered: Does my dog really love me? For pet lovers, the answer might seem obvious. We see it in the little things: the excitement when we […]

When a Healthy Relationship Feels Boring: Are You Just Not Attracted?

When a healthy relationship feels boring, you might start questioning everything. You meet someone who’s kind, emotionally available, respectful, and everything you thought you wanted. So why aren’t you excited? And why does a relationship that looks perfect on paper leave you feeling unsure? Basically, this person is everything you said you wanted. But when […]

ASK SHERYL: Dating With Pets: When Your Partner Fears Your Pet Snake

Dating with pets can bring unexpected challenges, especially when the person you’re dating is afraid of your animal. What happens when you really like someone, but they want you to give up a pet you love? Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. Dear Sheryl, I’ve been dating […]

Mixed Signals in Dating: Stop Guessing and Find Clarity

Mixed signals in dating can leave you wondering where you stand, especially when daily conversations suddenly slow down. Sometimes, it’s tempting to analyze every text and search for hidden meanings. But what if the best way to get clarity is to take one small step forward? Last week, Maya realized she was stuck in that […]

ASK SHERYL: She Says We’re Just Friends, So Why Does She Get Jealous?

Mixed signals in friendship can be confusing, especially when a close friend says she only sees you as a friend but gets jealous when you start dating other people. Does her jealousy mean she secretly wants something more, or is it time to move on? Let’s ask Sheryl. When Friendship Starts Feeling Like Something More […]

Dating Burnout: When Dating Starts to Feel Heavy

Dating burnout can make finding love feel heavier than it should. You’re putting yourself out there, messaging on the apps, and showing up in person, yet dating still feels exhausting. The profiles and conversations blur together, the spark feels inconsistent, and you start wondering if something is wrong with you. But often, the real issue […]

ASK SHERYL: When Your Partner’s Past Starts Affecting Your Relationship

Understanding Jealousy in a Relationship Jealousy in a relationship can be difficult to manage, especially when you discover that your partner has a history with someone they described as “just a friend.” Even if that connection happened before you met, unanswered questions can affect your trust and peace of mind. So, how do you work […]

Are You Dating Them or Their Potential?

Are You Dating Them or Their Potential? It’s easy to fall in love with who someone could be. Dating someone’s potential can make you hold on to the person you imagine they might become instead of paying attention to who they are today. You see glimpses of kindness, emotional depth, or commitment. You tell yourself […]

ASK SHERYL: A Good Date, But No Chemistry? How to Say No Kindly

No Chemistry After First Date? How to Say No Kindly No chemistry after a first date? You’re not alone. Sometimes, you can enjoy a great conversation, spend hours getting to know someone, and still realize you don’t want a second date. That doesn’t mean anyone did anything wrong. The challenge is communicating your feelings honestly […]

Why Do We Feel the Need to Justify Our Needs in Dating?

Justifying your needs in dating can leave you second-guessing yourself, over-explaining your feelings, and worrying about asking for too much. But expressing your needs is a natural part of building healthy relationships. Learning to communicate honestly and confidently can help you create connections that feel safe, balanced, and genuine. Why Justifying Your Needs in Dating […]

ASK SHERYL: Learning to Trust Again After Divorce: How to Open Your Heart Without Losing Yourself

Learning to trust again after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when a past relationship has left you questioning your judgment. If you’re ready to start dating again, it’s natural to wonder how you can open your heart without risking the same hurt. The good news is that rebuilding trust doesn’t mean ignoring red flags or […]

When Does Giving Someone A Chance Become Too Much?

Healthy compromise in dating helps two people understand each other, navigate differences, and build a stronger connection. But being open-minded doesn’t mean ignoring your own needs. So, when does giving someone a chance become a reason to accept less than what feels right for you? Many people gradually lower their standards without realizing it. They […]

ASK SHERYL: Should You Go on a Second Date? Dating Red Flags to Watch For

Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. (This question was asked anonymously.) Wondering, should you go on a second date when the first one leaves you questioning someone’s behavior? A late arrival and an unexpected conversation about credit scores can make you hesitate. Sheryl Matthys shares how […]

When Dating Has No Direction

Dating without direction can leave you feeling stuck in a connection that never seems to move forward. You may enjoy each other’s company and talk regularly, but without clear intentions, it’s difficult to know whether the relationship has a future. Whether you met a new friend, arranged a fun pet playdate, or […]

ASK SHERYL: Letting Go of Someone You Still Love

Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. This question was asked by Yong. Letting go of someone you love can be difficult, especially when your mind knows the relationship isn’t right but your heart is still holding on. You may find yourself grieving not only the person, but […]

The Right Person Won’t Keep You Guessing

Mixed signals in dating can leave you wondering where you stand with someone. When a person seems interested one day and distant the next, it’s easy to overthink every message and conversation. But a genuine connection shouldn’t leave you constantly guessing. Healthy relationships thrive on clear communication, consistent effort, and mutual respect. When someone likes […]

If They Like You, Why Do They Make It So Confusing?

Why They Pull Away When You Like Them Back Real dating questions. Honest answers. These questions come from members of the FetchaDate community. (This question was asked anonymously.) When someone pursues you enthusiastically, then pulls away as soon as you return their feelings, it’s easy to question yourself. Sheryl Matthys explains why mixed signals happen […]

The Dog Park Dilemma

Her list of requirements began to feel off. A few months ago, Mia started noticing something. She began to think more deeply about what healthy relationships look like in her own life. Not about the people she was dating… about herself. In doing so, she questioned her understanding of relationships that remain healthy over time. […]

7 Ways to Comfort Someone Who Has Lost a Pet

Losing a furry best friend is never easy. Here’s how you can help when pet lost. After a long, happy life together, it’s hard to imagine saying goodbye to your pet. When a friend, family member, or love interest is faced with this difficult time, it’s understandable to not know what to say. Below are […]

Can CBD Alleviate Dating Anxiety for Dog Lovers?

Do you and your WingPet have first-date jitters? We’re all a little rusty when it comes to in-person dating if it’s been a while. It also comes as no surprise that the occurrence of dating anxiety became a steady rise, no thanks to the pandemic. If the thought of dating makes you anxious, know that […]

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